FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Last updated: 2026-09-26

1. Who can register?

   Only people aged 18 or over, and only in Lithuania.

    

2. How much does a credit cost?

   1 credit costs 1 euro. Credits are not refundable and cannot be exchanged for money.

    

3. What can credits be used for?

   A Write to me slot and lifting your profile in member search.

    

4. What is Write to me?

   A paid card in the corner of the feed and member search. 1 day costs 1 credit, for up to 10 days. If the slot is still active, the new time is added. A profile photo is required. If several members have bought a slot, the cards rotate.

    

5. Why can’t I see someone’s Write to me card?

   That member does not accept first messages from your age or gender, or they require a profile photo. Their card is then hidden from you.

    

6. What does it mean to be at the top of member search?

   Your profile is shown higher in search. The price is the same: 1 credit per day, for up to 10 days. This is not Write to me.

    

7. How do I stop unwanted people from writing to me?

   In the chat settings, choose gender, age from and to, and whether only members with a profile photo may write.

    

8. Why can’t I message someone?

   They blocked you, you blocked them, or their filter does not let you in. If a conversation has already started, you can keep writing in it.

    

9. Does Write to me guarantee a reply?

   No. You pay for visibility, not for a reply.

    

10. What if someone asks for money?

    Do not send it. Block them and report them to the administration. Asking for money on the site is not allowed.

     

11. What if someone is using my photo?

    Report it from the profile and add proof. If you are not registered, write to info@xthuania.lt.

     

12. Is the site for minors?

    No. It is only for people aged 18 or over.